Listening to Families Videos
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• 13/05/24
Adolescents - What does the Stop Adolescent service provide?
Stop https://www.stop.org.nz/education-training
https://d3s0duoac88rfm.cloudfront.net/12-Stop-2019-Developmentally-normal-age-expected-sexualised-behaviour-A5.pdf
Beyond the birds and the bees https://www.beyondthebirdsandbees.co.nz/
Fight the new drug https://fightthenewdrug.org/
In the know https://www.intheknow.co.nz/
Loves me not https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/loves-me-not
https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/loves-me-not-9781775536017
Safe Network's Problem Sexual Behaviour Indicator App can assist to identify whether someone's behaviour is concerning or not. https://safenet.co.nz/
Stop Non-consensual intimate imagery abuse https://stopncii.org/
Tea and consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
The Light Project https://thelightproject.co.nz/
The Line – what’s ok and what’s not when it comes to sex, dating and relationships https://www.theline.org.au/ -
• 13/05/24
Adolescents - Engaging with whanau
Stop https://www.stop.org.nz/education-training
Beyond the birds and the bees https://www.beyondthebirdsandbees.co.nz/
Fight the new drug https://fightthenewdrug.org/
In the know https://www.intheknow.co.nz/
Loves me not https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/loves-me-not
https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/loves-me-not-9781775536017
Safe Network's Problem Sexual Behaviour Indicator App can assist to identify whether someone's behaviour is concerning or not. https://safenet.co.nz/
Stop Non-consensual intimate imagery abuse https://stopncii.org/
Tea and consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
The Light Project https://thelightproject.co.nz/
The Line – what’s ok and what’s not when it comes to sex, dating and relationships https://www.theline.org.au/
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• 13/05/24
Adolescents - Building relationships between adolescents and parents
Stop https://www.stop.org.nz/education-training
Beyond the birds and the bees https://www.beyondthebirdsandbees.co.nz/
Fight the new drug https://fightthenewdrug.org/
In the know https://www.intheknow.co.nz/
Loves me not https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/loves-me-not
https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/loves-me-not-9781775536017
Safe Network's Problem Sexual Behaviour Indicator App can assist to identify whether someone's behaviour is concerning or not. https://safenet.co.nz/
Stop Non-consensual intimate imagery abuse https://stopncii.org/
Tea and consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
The Light Project https://thelightproject.co.nz/
The Line – what’s ok and what’s not when it comes to sex, dating and relationships https://www.theline.org.au/
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• 13/05/24
Adolescents - Assessment and engagement with a young person
Stop https://www.stop.org.nz/education-training
Beyond the birds and the bees https://www.beyondthebirdsandbees.co.nz/
Fight the new drug https://fightthenewdrug.org/
In the know https://www.intheknow.co.nz/
Loves me not https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/loves-me-not
https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/loves-me-not-9781775536017
Safe Network's Problem Sexual Behaviour Indicator App can assist to identify whether someone's behaviour is concerning or not. https://safenet.co.nz/
Stop Non-consensual intimate imagery abuse https://stopncii.org/
Tea and consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
The Light Project https://thelightproject.co.nz/
The Line – what’s ok and what’s not when it comes to sex, dating and relationships https://www.theline.org.au/
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• 13/05/24
Adolescents - What is meant by age appropriate sexualised behaviour?
Stop https://www.stop.org.nz/education-training
Beyond the birds and the bees https://www.beyondthebirdsandbees.co.nz/
Fight the new drug https://fightthenewdrug.org/
In the know https://www.intheknow.co.nz/
Loves me not https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/loves-me-not
https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/loves-me-not-9781775536017
Safe Network's Problem Sexual Behaviour Indicator App can assist to identify whether someone's behaviour is concerning or not. https://safenet.co.nz/
Stop Non-consensual intimate imagery abuse https://stopncii.org/
Tea and consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
The Light Project https://thelightproject.co.nz/
The Line – what’s ok and what’s not when it comes to sex, dating and relationships https://www.theline.org.au/
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• 13/05/24
Adolescents - Navigating conversations about pornography
Stop https://www.stop.org.nz/education-training
Beyond the birds and the bees https://www.beyondthebirdsandbees.co.nz/
Fight the new drug https://fightthenewdrug.org/
In the know https://www.intheknow.co.nz/
Loves me not https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/loves-me-not
https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/loves-me-not-9781775536017
Safe Network's Problem Sexual Behaviour Indicator App can assist to identify whether someone's behaviour is concerning or not. https://safenet.co.nz/
Stop Non-consensual intimate imagery abuse https://stopncii.org/
Tea and consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
The Light Project https://thelightproject.co.nz/
The Line – what’s ok and what’s not when it comes to sex, dating and relationships https://www.theline.org.au/
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• 13/05/24
Adolescents - Tips for keeping young people safe online
Stop https://www.stop.org.nz/education-training
Beyond the birds and the bees https://www.beyondthebirdsandbees.co.nz/
Fight the new drug https://fightthenewdrug.org/
In the know https://www.intheknow.co.nz/
Loves me not https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/loves-me-not
https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/loves-me-not-9781775536017
Safe Network's Problem Sexual Behaviour Indicator App can assist to identify whether someone's behaviour is concerning or not. https://safenet.co.nz/
Stop Non-consensual intimate imagery abuse https://stopncii.org/
Tea and consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
The Light Project https://thelightproject.co.nz/
The Line – what’s ok and what’s not when it comes to sex, dating and relationships https://www.theline.org.au/
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• 13/05/24
Adolescents - Resources
Stop https://www.stop.org.nz/education-training
Beyond the birds and the bees https://www.beyondthebirdsandbees.co.nz/
Fight the new drug https://fightthenewdrug.org/
In the know https://www.intheknow.co.nz/
Loves me not https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/loves-me-not
https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/loves-me-not-9781775536017
Safe Network's Problem Sexual Behaviour Indicator App can assist to identify whether someone's behaviour is concerning or not. https://safenet.co.nz/
Stop Non-consensual intimate imagery abuse https://stopncii.org/
Tea and consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
The Light Project https://thelightproject.co.nz/
The Line – what’s ok and what’s not when it comes to sex, dating and relationships https://www.theline.org.au/
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• 29/04/24
Children - Why do children initiate sexualised play and behaviour?
Resources
Websites
A community free from sexual harm | Stop
NSPCC – The UK Children’s Charity
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/support-for-parents/pants-underwear-rule/
Books:
My Body my Taonga - Rosalind Harrison & Susan Simpson
Good Pictures Bad Pictures (jr) - Kristen A. Jenson
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• 29/04/24
Children - When would a parent/caregiver be concerned about a child’s sexual play or behaviour?
Betty Gallagher Team Leader Children’s services and Lyn Jansen Prevention Education Lead from Stop Services explain that there are a number of guidelines in relation to what is age expected. Lyn notes a number of factors that would raise concern. Betty talks about context and the level of intrusion that occurs.
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• 29/04/24
Children - Supporting a child that has specific/learning needs with sexualised behaviour
Betty Gallagher Team Leader Children’s services and Lyn Jansen Prevention Education Lead both from Stop Services talk about the way that the team work with children with disabilities. Betty notes the use of play when she interacts with the children. Lyn talks about the importance of having safe adults in their lives.
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• 29/04/24
Children - At what age do you start conversations about safe touch, safe boundaries?
Betty Gallagher Team Leader Children’s services and Lyn Jansen Prevention Education Lead both from Stop Services note the importance of starting early. Lyn suggests that the conversation starts with a child when they are a baby. They note there is a wide variation in the way that families approach this – there is no right or wrong. Betty confirms that earlier is better.
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• 29/04/24
Children - What behaviour is developmentally age expected?
Betty Gallagher Team Leader Children’s services and Lyn Jansen Prevention Education Lead both from Stop Services note that language is important. Lyn explains that some activity may be age expected but not appropriate. She refers to a booklet on the Stop website. Betty also talks about age expected and the importance of context.
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• 29/04/24
Children - Is sexualised behaviour due to sexual harm - being careful about our assumptions
Betty Gallagher Team Leader Children’s services and Lyn Jansen Prevention Education Lead both from Stop Services note the importance of not making assumptions. They talk about slowing down and getting the context. They also note the importance of having a safe space to have discussions.
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• 29/04/24
Children - When and how do I start talking about safe boundaries with my child?
Resources
Websites
A community free from sexual harm | Stop
NSPCC – The UK Children’s Charity
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/support-for-parents/pants-underwear-rule/
Books:
My Body my Taonga - Rosalind Harrison & Susan Simpson
Good Pictures Bad Pictures (jr) - Kristen A. Jenson
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• 29/04/24
Children - Conversations about pornography and resources that support these
Resources
Websites
A community free from sexual harm | Stop
NSPCC – The UK Children’s Charity
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/support-for-parents/pants-underwear-rule/
Books:
My Body my Taonga - Rosalind Harrison & Susan Simpson
Good Pictures Bad Pictures (jr) - Kristen A. Jenson
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• 29/04/24
Children - Safe Boundaries and conversations about online content
Resources
Websites
A community free from sexual harm | Stop
NSPCC – The UK Children’s Charity
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/support-for-parents/pants-underwear-rule/
Books:
My Body my Taonga - Rosalind Harrison & Susan Simpson
Good Pictures Bad Pictures (jr) - Kristen A. Jenson
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• 29/04/24
Children - Resources available for families – books and websites
Resources
Websites
A community free from sexual harm | Stop
NSPCC – The UK Children’s Charity
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/support-for-parents/pants-underwear-rule/
Books:
My Body my Taonga - Rosalind Harrison & Susan Simpson
Good Pictures Bad Pictures (jr) - Kristen A. Jenson
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• 29/04/24
Children - Key messages
Resources
Websites
A community free from sexual harm | Stop
NSPCC – The UK Children’s Charity
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/support-for-parents/pants-underwear-rule/
Books:
My Body my Taonga - Rosalind Harrison & Susan Simpson
Good Pictures Bad Pictures (jr) - Kristen A. Jenson